At the heart of the expansive mindset lies a state of consciousness that is relaxed and interested at the same time. A great way to connect oneself with this state of consciousness is through one's own story.
But what does this mean, the idea of your story? What actually goes into the concept of your story and how can you use the various components that make up your story to help you achieve your goals?
Well I believe that in order for us to engage and resonate with our story, there are 4 key elements that we need to connect with.
1. Identity: Who am I? This is a big philosophical question, but need not be overwhelming. However, I think it’s important for us to keep asking ourselves this question because we are forever changing. Related to your identity are your morals, your value or belief systems, your ideologies, your background, your talents, and your influencers (people who have played significant roles in shaping who you are).
2. Purpose: This is also such a big question, but so relevant to our current context because I think so many of us have lost a sense of our purpose due to being endlessly shaped by the systems and structures that mould us from day to day. So, a good question that links you back to your purpose is: “What am I here to do?” or, “How can I make a difference?”
3. Interests: I think our interests or our passions evolve over time, but I also think that it’s important to dig into these ideas or passions we have because they pave the way for purpose. Have you ever heard someone speak of something they’re really interested in? You can’t help but be captivated by their knowledge, expertise and enthusiasm on the subject. So much so that you want to find out more about what they do. Your passions are your fire! Rekindle the fire within you if therein you find mere smouldering embers.
4. Challenge/Motivation: We all need challenges in our lives because the very concepts that challenge and engage us, at the same time help us grow, develop, learn from failure, and ultimately be better people for it. No doubt in some way your story is linked to your challenge. What motivates you in the morning when you get out of bed? What challenge lies before you that you can take the steps to overcome and grow in the process? Have you ever overcome a great challenge? Climbing a mountain, running a race, writing a book, or got someone to see your point of view? Challenges shape us, they give texture and substance to our stories.
Imagine getting up on your cardboard box and telling your story. How would you tell it, who would you communicate it to, and how would these components shape your narrative? Would people want to hear more of what you do and the value you can provide through the ideas in your story?
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